Here’s a little update on life for us these days.
We moved to our new fixer upper home almost 7 months ago. I joke with hubby that we ought to just dig a big hole in the backyard and start throwing money into it, because it has been one giant money pit! A mold report that came back showing high levels of (non toxic) mold less than a month after we bought the house really pushed us to replace the areas were there had been water exposure (floors, under kitchen sink) much faster than we had originally planned. And then the snowball just started rolling as one thing led to another. That’s home renovation for you, I suppose!
Here’s a list of some of the things we’ve redone since we moved in:
Tear out back deck (was structurally unsafe).
New carpet in family room and bedrooms:
Removed wall between dining room and kitchen:
Laminate in kitchen, fireplace room, hallway and master closet:
Closet doors (two sets), screen door, side garage door:
Tile floors in laundry room and kids’ bathroom:
Replaced Kitchen counter tops, sink (chipping), faucet & garbage disposal (leaked whenever running):
Tile back splash in kitchen (which we had to add because there was a big gap between the counter tops and the wall):
Replaced furnace and A/C (yes we wanted to cry when we learned we needed to replace BOTH):
Dishwasher (which died right after the furnace and A/C – more crying, hehe). New dishwasher will be here in two weeks.
Replaced fridge (died on moving day), stove and microwave.
Painted bathroom vanities and kitchen cabinets:
Painted ENTIRE house (including ceilings).
Replaced almost all light fixtures and 2 out of 3 fans (we saved the only one that worked).
Whew! That wasn’t even a comprehensive list. And what’s sadder is that the “to do” list is still a mile long! The bottom line, however, is that we LOVE living here. We love the space (1/2 acre), the neighborhood, the proximity to hubby’s work, and also the fact that we live super close to my in laws! (And as a side note, both my parents and my hubby’s Dad were instrumental in helping us get a lot of the above list completed!)
Josh & Rachel are doing fine. Josh is just over 3 and Rachel is 20 months. I sure do love them and enjoy my days with them. I know everyone else has adorable/smart/funny kids, but some days I seriously wonder which state penitentiary my kids will end up at–because they can be quite devious! Some days Josh and I really do battle it out. I’m no marshmellow Mom in any sense of the word, so I often have to remember to look for ways that I can answer “yes” instead of “no.” Rachel is very determined and doesn’t give up easily either, but she does have much shorter tantrums, which I am thankful for!
I like to remember the following so please tune out if this is crazy boring (I imagine it would be to most):
Josh wears 3T clothing and wears a an 8/9 shoe. He weighs 31.6# (No joke, he’s weighed exactly 31.6# the last several times he’s asked to hop on the scale!) and a few months ago he was just over 3 feet tall. We took away his paci back in April and it wasn’t a big deal at all (we were shocked! And thankful…).
Rachel wears 18-24 months clothing and is somewhere between a size 5 or 6 shoe. She is only a few inches shorter than Josh. She still doesn’t have to many words, but she’s working on it every day. She’s been in a size 5 diaper for a while. I use Pampers diapers and water only wipes or else she tends to be prone to really bad diaper rash.
I wrote a while back about experiencing unintended weight loss. I’m happy to report that out of the 16# I lost, I gained 7-8# of it back and that seems to be where things have settled. I’m not unhappy about it, but I do wish I had a better appetite most days so that cooking would feel less like a chore.
I don’t really want to go on and on when it comes to this topic. The synopsis is: The endo does seem to be back. Some months are bad and some are okay. I cut out caffeine back in February which seemed to really help with pain levels. I still seem quite unable to get pregnant without intervention (IVF), so that’s a drag. At the same time, I have little to no desire to go through IVF again (not that we could afford it right now after all these home repairs!). I’ve been thinking about my options for when things DO get consistently bad, pain-wise. One option is to see a specialist who would excise all endo (cutting it out, rather than burning it off) and see how far that gets me. Another option would be to do a hysterectomy and also have current endo excised. This may still not alleviate pain (endo grows back easily and hides, so that it can be tricky even for specialists to find) and I still may require further surgeries. In all honesty, I’m hoping avoid any surgeries at all, because the frequent pain I get from adhesions and scar tissue following surgeries is off the charts.
Well I think that covers some of the basics! Thanks for sticking it through the post!